Assalamualaikum and hello fellas
This topic might sounds cliche ehem but I still want to have a say in this.
Mid semester break has passed and here I am back in college.
Actually this topic is about being in a relationship. Yeah mind you I have warned about the cliche-ness. Anyway I have been bombarded with the ultimate question of when I will be in one. Pfft.
I was hanging out with my girls and suddenly Syasya asked me: "Eh Rye you don't have a boyfriend right?" I almost choke the roti canai I was eating. I just grinned at her.
I told my sister about the incident and guess what she said,
"Oh yeah, why don't you have one? Even your lil sis got herself a boyfriend." Seriously akak? Seriously???
And when I thought that's about it, I was wrong.
Syasya sis, Kak Nelly asked me the same question when she sent me back to college.
And that is when I thought to myself. Why is it important? Like seriously. I'm still able to get up every morning without someone calling to wake me up. Alhamdulillah. I can still sleep soundly without someone to talk to late at night. Alhamdulillah. I can study for exams without someone to "inspire" me. Alhamdulillah. For me, to be in a relationship you have to commit to it. I am for sure not ready for that. Hello I still could not manage my time well with the study, club and activities and now I have to squeeze in someone in my schedule. I don't think so.
Moreover, I don't want to waste my time, money and energy with someone whom I don't even know for sure that I would be spending my lifetime with.
"If it's there, then it's there" (Madam Adzura, 2012).
p/s: Well this is my opinion regarding the matter. Agree? Disagree? Share me your thoughts aite :)
is tht mdm adzura elier u quoted? cuz it's so her to say sumink like tht. haha.
ReplyDeleteand im full force in agreement with you in this one. though i dont deny i hve my fair share of crushes and the occasional desire to be in a relationship, i don't think anything i go for right now would matter to me anymore 5 years from now. Definitely am not ready for anything serious and don't intend to be any time soon. We don't NEED men to 'complete' us. Relationships should be a mutual thing you know; no one pesters guys about why they haven't gotten a gf, why should ppl pester girls? That's my thought. ;)
Yeap. Madam Adzura Elier. All the words coming out from her mouth are just pure genius.
ReplyDeleteI know right. This being in relationship which is not a long term one is just pfft /flush down the toilet crap thingy/
I guess people are being casual by asking all these questions as they don't have other issues to discuss.
"We don't NEED men to 'complete' us." I second that :D